If time goes by and he is not begging to come back, it’s not there anymore. Not for now at least.
But not all hope is gone. I am now married for 8 years to a guy who broke up with me (before we were married) and after being no-contact for 2 months.
After 2 months we met each other “be accident” (I don’t believe in “accidents”), got back together and a year later we were married.
I can leave him because I still love him deeply and cant imagine my future without him
I’m saying that if it’s meant to be, you will find your way back to each other. And if not – Good for you too.
Thank you so much for your advice and support. Here’s the other part that I need to get out of my chest because it scares me… I’m 29 years old now, and I’ve been in three long relationships (the previous one I’ve had ended the same way than this one I’m telling you: he didn’t love me anymore… ?? ). As you can imagine, not only I’m living the horror of get trough a relationship because my boyfriend doesn’t love me…I’m living it knowing that it happened to me before, that my previous boyfriend fell out of love for me too. Am I so unlovable? I feel old, and I’m so scared thinking I’m never going to find true love. It’s truly hard for me to feel something for someone, even if it’s only attraction, it’s very difficult to me. So being 29, single, with 3 broken relationships in my past, makes me think I’m never meeting the one for me.
The past is exactly what it is: the past. All we have is right now. The past does NOT have any power on the present or the future.
I will tell you this though: What we think is what we are. If you convince yourself that you are unlovable, old etc, it’s exactly what will happen.
hey I need some help.I have a very busy schedule since I am a student of a very restricted college from the very beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend.I have got some family problems too.There were times when he used to deal with any sort of problems,admire me or appreciate my effort.But during last few months things changed.I think its partly my fault.I was the one who always wanted to make peace when we have fights.But he never did.we have different perspectives of life.I am not as much as responsible as he is.But I gave my best effort to please him.Even I lost my self-respect in the process.every single week we have fights for 4-5 times.Now he said that he wouldn’t stay with me anymore because I have so many lacking,issues and our lifestyle doesn’t match. what will I do?pls I need a quick help. thanks in advance
I think that I would take some time to figure out WHAT exactly is causing the constant fights, becuase until it’s resolved you won’t be able to go on with the relationship and both of you may lack the motivation to stay.
You have to put a stop to these negative thoughts right now, and switch them with positive thoughts and a lot of self love
There is probably an underlying cause for all the arguments, which has nothing to do with what you’re actually fighting about. can you tell what it is? What’s hiding under the surface?
If you can communicate honestly about this, you’ll know deep inside what to do – And it will feel right to both of you – Whether it’s staying and working to fix it, or say goodbye (at least for now, no one knows what the future holds, right?)